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Patricia Lalonde
Family Mediator and Financial Neutral in Collaborative Practice
All of Canada, All of Province, Greater Vancouver, Northern Vancouver Island, Southern Vancouver Island

Office: (604) 605-3149

Family Roster Mediation Details
I am a Qualified Family Mediator, a Financial Neutral in Collaborative Practice and a Certified Financial Planner with over 35 years of experience. I am particularly adept at clarifying complicated financial issues and leveling the playing field of financial understanding. I work with couples and create one neutral financial document. This clarity is a solid foundation for Mediated agreements.

$225 - $225 / hour

Any reduction in fees is based on individual cases.

I appreciate 48 hours notice of a cancellation. Otherwise a fee could apply.


I'm passionate about my role as a Family Mediator helping families resolve issues without going to court. I'm a Certified Financial Planner with over 35 years of experience helping people with their money concerns and guiding them to create realistic solutions. I am a charter member of the BC Collaborative Roster Society working with Lawyers and Coaches as a Financial Neutral. When the IACP had their Annual Forum, hosting the world in Vancouver, I was one of the 6 people who organized that incredible event.

In mediation I work together with Lawyers, Coaches and Child Specialists to provide the best supports for families moving through transition into a new reality. I am passionate about helping families avoid the expensive and devastating experience of conflict in court.

When couples discuss financial matters, it brings up all kinds of issues in the best of times. At a time of separation or dispute, emotions run high making it difficult to think clearly. I listen to your concerns and questions.

Together we will create one clear Financial Document for our discussions in Mediation. If there are gaps in your understanding, I will teach you the rules that apply to your specific situation. This clarity gives you a good foundation for making confident money decisions and a solid agreement within Mediation. Then you see your lawyers for Independent Legal Advice and Drafting your Agreement.

Clients have greatly benefited form my knowledge, wisdom and compassion. I've gained wisdom through a life of changes and challenges, divorce and the serious diagnosis of a loved one, so I really do understand your worries.

My ideal clients need to make significant financial decisions at a time of life altering transitions and want to keep their families out of court.

Conflict within Families
  • Family Relationships
  • Managing High Conflict
  • Managing Power Imbalances
  • Mental Health Issues
Elder Mediation
  • Common Law Relationships/Trusts
  • Family Business
  • Family Inheritance/Business Succession
  • Pensions and Benefits
Financial & Property
  • Child Support & Maintenance
  • Common Law Relationships/Trusts
  • Division of Assets and Liabilities
  • Family Business
  • Family Inheritance and Estates
  • Financial Aspects of Separation
  • Pre-nuptial Agreements
  • Spousal Support
  • Separation Memorandums of Understanding

  • Aboriginal: Self-identified
  • French Canadian